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Cultivating Inner Peace

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Exercise/Movement, Healthy Lifestyle, Holistic & Integrated Approaches, Holistic Mental Health Practices, Natural Solutions, Preventative Self-care, selfcare, sleep, Small Joys, stress-management
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Simple Habits for Mental and Emotional Wellness

Welcome back!

We’ve explored how intentional nourishment fuels the body and how movement empowers it.

Now, we arrive at the critical third pillar of holistic health, as introduced in our foundational post, A Holistic Approach to Health and Wellness

Inner Peace

In our always-on, hyper-connected world, achieving true mental and emotional wellness often feels like a luxury rather than a necessity. But the reality is, chronic stress and mental clutter are two of the biggest threats to your physical health. When this pillar is neglected, it undermines the benefits of a healthy diet and a consistent exercise routine.

Inner peace is not the absence of problems; it is the presence of resilience and the capacity to meet life’s challenges with a sense of grounded calm. Let’s explore simple, powerful habits for stress reduction and the cultivation of a truly peaceful mind.

The Power of the Pause: Mindfulness for Adults

The practice of mindfulness is your most powerful tool for cultivating inner peace.

Mindfulness simply means paying attention, on purpose, to the present moment without judgment. It moves you out of the looping worries about the past or anxieties about the future.

Meditation. You don’t need to sit cross-legged for an hour. Commit to five minutes daily. Focus on the sensation of your breath. When your mind inevitably wanders (and it will!), gently guide your attention back to the breath. This simple practice fundamentally rewires your brain for calmness.
Create mindful gaps between tasks. Before you leave work, take 60 seconds to close your eyes and take three deep breaths. Before you eat, take a moment to be grateful for the food. These mini-pauses prevent the day’s stress from compounding.

Use deep breathing as an anchor. When stress hits, your breath becomes shallow and rapid (the “fight or flight” response). Learning to intentionally practice diaphragmatic (belly) breathing sends a signal to your nervous system that you are safe, instantly lowering your heart rate and cortisol levels.

These are vital stress reduction techniques.

Sleep: The Cornerstone of Emotional Resilience

We often treat sleep as a negotiable luxury, but it is a biological necessity—and arguably the single most important habit for mental and emotional wellness. It is during sleep that your brain cleanses itself of metabolic waste, consolidates memories, and processes emotions.


Prioritize Consistency: Try to go to bed and wake up around the same time, even on weekends. This stabilizes your body’s natural circadian rhythm.
Create a “Wind-Down” Routine: An hour before bed, dim the lights and ditch the screens (smartphones, tablets, TV). Read a book, listen to gentle music, or take a warm bath. This signals to your brain that it’s time to switch from doing to being.
Optimize Your Sleep Environment: Ensure your bedroom is dark, quiet, and cool.

Journaling: Unloading the Mental Clutter

Your mind is for generating ideas, not for storing every single worry, to-do list item, and scattered thought. Writing things down is one of the most effective inner peace habits available.


Morning Pages (Brain Dump): Spend 5–10 minutes writing out whatever is on your mind, uncensored. This clears the clutter and allows you to start the day with more mental bandwidth.
Emotional Processing: If you are dealing with a difficult emotion, write about it. Naming the feeling and describing its cause reduces its intensity and allows you to gain perspective on the situation.
Boundary Setting: Journaling helps you identify what is causing you stress—be it overcommitment, a toxic relationship, or a poorly managed schedule. This clarity is the first step toward establishing the healthy boundaries needed for work-life balance.

The Practice of Non-Judgment

A huge source of mental distress is our internal self-criticism and judgment. The holistic path encourages self-compassion.


Talk to Yourself Like a Friend: When you make a mistake, notice the internal dialogue. Would you speak to your best friend the way you speak to yourself? Replace harsh judgment with gentle encouragement.
Accept What You Can’t Control: Acknowledge that life has uncertainties. Release the need to control outcomes and focus your energy only on the things that are within your sphere of influence (your actions, your effort, and your attitude).

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Cultivating inner peace habits is the daily work of tending to your soul. When you commit to a foundation of mental and emotional wellness, you dramatically enhance your capacity to benefit from all the other pillars of holistic health. You become centered, resilient, and fully present for the beautiful life you are creating.

What is one small way you can create a “pause” in your busy day today to cultivate inner peace?

The Movement Mindset

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Exercise/Movement, healthy habits, Healthy Lifestyle, Holistic & Integrated Approaches, Holistic Health & Wellness, Integrative Health, Longevity & Healthy Aging, Mental & Emotional Wellness, Natural Solutions, selfcare
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How an Active Body Supports Your Holistic Health

Welcome back! Following our dive into the essential pillar of Nourishment, we turn our attention to the second cornerstone of holistic health: Movement.

In our foundational post, “A Holistic Approach to Health and Wellness: Simple Habits for a Thriving Life“, we emphasized that health is an interconnected system. The way we move (or don’t move) has profound effects that ripple far beyond muscle tone—it impacts our mood, sleep quality, cognitive function, and resilience to stress.

This post is dedicated to cultivating a movement mindset. This shift is about ditching the “no pain, no gain” pressure and adopting a philosophy where movement is a joyful, necessary act of self-care. It’s about embracing consistency over intensity.

🌟 Redefining “Exercise”: It’s More Than the Gym

For many adults, the word “exercise” evokes images of punishing routines and heavy weights. This intimidating view is often what stops people from starting. In the context of holistic health, we use the word Movement.

Movement is simply utilizing your body in the way it was designed to be used. It includes:

  • Functional Movement: Daily activities like carrying groceries, playing with pets, or gardening.
  • Intentional Movement: Dedicated time for walking, stretching, or working out.
  • Restorative Movement: Gentle practices like Yin Yoga, Tai Chi, or deep stretching aimed at recovery and flexibility.

The goal is to increase the amount of non-sedentary time throughout your day to promote an active body and healthy mind.

🧠 The Cognitive and Emotional Benefits of Moving

The holistic health benefits of exercise are perhaps most evident in the brain. When you move, your body releases powerful hormones and neurotransmitters.

  • The Endorphin Rush: Exercise releases endorphins, natural mood elevators that can help manage symptoms of anxiety and depression. A consistent movement practice is a powerful tool for emotional regulation.
  • Improved Cognitive Function: Physical activity increases blood flow to the brain, which supports the growth of new brain cells and improves memory, focus, and creativity. Taking a walk before a complex task can often lead to better problem-solving.
  • Stress Reduction: Movement is a fantastic way to metabolize stress hormones (like cortisol) that build up when you’re under pressure. A brisk walk or a challenging workout allows your body to physically work through tension, leaving you calmer afterward.

🧘‍♀️ Building Consistency Over Intensity

For gentle exercise for adults, the key to long-term success is to build a habit that is easily maintained, even on bad days.

  • The 10-Minute Rule: If you are struggling to start, commit to just 10 minutes. Often, once those 10 minutes are over, you’ll feel motivated to continue. If not, you’ve still moved for 10 minutes—a victory!
  • Stack Your Habits: Integrate movement into existing routines. For example, do 5 minutes of stretching while your coffee brews, or take a 15-minute walk immediately after dropping the kids off at school. This is a powerful strategy for embedding healthy habits.
  • The Power of Walking: As we mentioned in our foundational post, walking is the simplest, most accessible, and highly effective movement there is. It’s low-impact, great for heart health, and perfect for getting that necessary vitamin D when outdoors. Aim for 30 minutes most days.

🛡️ Movement for Longevity and Resilience

Beyond the immediate benefits, a movement mindset is an investment in your long-term physical health and independence.

  • Bone Density: Weight-bearing exercises (like walking, hiking, or weight training) are essential for maintaining bone density, which is crucial as we age.
  • Cardiovascular Health: Regular movement strengthens your heart, making it more efficient at pumping blood and lowering your risk of chronic disease.
  • Flexibility and Balance: Incorporating restorative movement like yoga or balance exercises helps prevent falls and keeps your body pliable and pain-free, allowing you to continue enjoying life’s physical activities well into your later years.

🤸 How to Find Your Joyful Movement

The most important piece of advice is to find movement you genuinely enjoy. If you dread your workout, it will never be a sustainable, holistic habit.

  • Explore: Try a variety of activities—Pilates, dancing, gardening, rock climbing, or team sports.
  • Prioritize Fun: If you find something that feels like play, you will naturally look forward to it. This transforms movement from a “should” to a “want.”
  • Make it Social: Join a walking group or take a class with a friend. Having a social element adds accountability and enjoyment.

Adopting a movement mindset is about respecting your body’s need for activity. It’s an integral component of your holistic framework, working hand-in-hand with nourishment, inner peace, and connection to ensure you are living a life of energy and vitality.

What is one non-traditional way you can incorporate joyful movement into your day today? Let us know in the comments!

Beyond the Diet

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Cooking, Drink More Water, Food, Gut Health, healthy habits, Healthy Lifestyle, Holistic & Integrated Approaches, Integrative Health, Longevity Wellness, mental-health, Mind/Body Connection, Natural Solutions, Small Joys, Stop Drinking Soda, Uncategorized
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Welcome back! If you read our foundational guide, A Holistic Approach to Health and Wellness, you know that true well-being is built on four interconnected pillars. Today, we’re diving deep into the first, and arguably the most fundamental: Nourishment.

For too long, the conversation around food has been dominated by restrictive dieting, calorie counting, and a focus purely on aesthetics. But intentional nourishment is about so much more. It’s about recognizing food as the premium-grade fuel your body and mind need to thrive, feel energized, and maintain vibrant health.

This isn’t about chasing the latest fad; it’s about establishing healthy eating habits for adults that last a lifetime. Let’s explore how to transform your relationship with food and unlock the powerful benefits of true whole-body nourishment.

🍽️ The Power of Whole Foods: Returning to Basics

The single most effective dietary shift you can make for mind body wellness is prioritizing whole, unprocessed foods.

What is a whole food? Simply put, it’s a food that is as close to its natural state as possible, with minimal processing and no added artificial ingredients. Think: a crisp apple, a handful of raw spinach, a piece of wild salmon, or a serving of brown rice.

* Focus on Nutrient Density: Whole foods are packed with vitamins, minerals, fiber, and phytonutrients (the compounds that give plants their color and health benefits). When you choose a nutrient-dense whole food over a calorie-dense, processed snack, you are providing your cells with the raw materials they need for optimal function.

* Embrace the Rainbow: Make it a fun, daily challenge to consume foods of different colors. Red tomatoes, yellow peppers, purple cabbage, and dark leafy greens all contain different arrays of antioxidants crucial for fighting inflammation and supporting immunity.

* The Fiber Factor: Fiber, found primarily in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains, is essential. It aids digestion, stabilizes blood sugar, and helps keep you feeling full longer, preventing those energy crashes and subsequent cravings.

💧 Hydration: The Unsung Hero of Healthy Habits

It might sound simple, but optimal hydration is a non-negotiable healthy habit for adults. Dehydration, even mild, can manifest as fatigue, poor concentration, headaches, and muscle cramps.

* The Morning Ritual: Start your day with a large glass of water, perhaps with a squeeze of lemon. This rehydrates your body after sleep and kick-starts your metabolism.

* Continuous Sips: Don’t wait until you’re thirsty—that’s a sign that dehydration has already begun. Keep a water bottle with you throughout the day and sip regularly. Herbal teas also count!

* Water and Mood: Research strongly suggests that proper hydration is linked to better mood regulation and decreased anxiety.

🧠 The Gut-Brain Connection

If we are talking about intentional nourishment, we must discuss the gut. Your gut microbiome—the trillions of bacteria living in your digestive tract—is often called your “second brain.” The communication pathway between your gut and your brain (the gut-brain axis) profoundly influences everything from your immune system to your emotional health.

* Feed Your Microbiome: Support a healthy gut by consuming fermented foods (like plain yogurt, sauerkraut, and kimchi) rich in probiotics. Also, consume prebiotics (fiber-rich foods like oats, bananas, and asparagus) which are the food that your beneficial gut bacteria thrive on.

* Reduce Inflammatory Foods: Highly processed foods, excessive sugars, and refined oils can promote the growth of harmful bacteria and cause inflammation in the gut, which can negatively impact your mental state.

🧘‍♀️ Mindful Eating: A Habit of Presence

You could eat the most perfect, nutrient-rich meal in the world, but if you eat it while stressed, standing up, or rushing through emails, your body’s ability to digest and absorb those nutrients is compromised.

Mindful eating is a powerful tool in establishing healthy eating habits for adults.

* Listen to Your Body: Pay attention to the signals of true hunger and fullness. Stop when you are satisfied, not overly stuffed.

* Eliminate Distractions: Turn off the TV, put down your phone, and step away from your desk.

* Engage Your Senses: Notice the smell, the colors, and the texture of your food.

* Chew Thoroughly: Digestion begins in the mouth. Chewing your food until it’s nearly liquid aids in the absorption of nutrients and reduces the burden on your stomach.

🎯 Creating Sustainable Nourishment Habits

Establishing true healthy eating habits for life requires consistency, not perfection.

  • Focus on Addition, Not Just Subtraction: Instead of obsessing over what to cut out, focus on what you can add to your plate—more vegetables, more fiber, more water.
  • Meal Prep Simple Staples: Dedicate an hour on the weekend to prepping simple ingredients like quinoa, roasted vegetables, and a batch of hard-boiled eggs. Having healthy options readily available makes the healthy choice the easy choice.

Intentional nourishment is an act of deep self-respect. It’s the daily choice to give your body the best fuel available, allowing you to show up as your most vibrant, energetic, and resilient self. By nurturing this pillar, you lay the strongest possible foundation for all other areas of your holistic health.

What’s one whole food you can add to your next meal to boost your mind body wellness? Share your nourishing idea below!

A Holistic Approach to Health and Wellness

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Exercise/Movement, Food, Gratitude, Growth & Expansion, healthy habits, Healthy Lifestyle, Holistic & Integrated Approaches, Holistic Mental Health Practices, Integrative Health, Integrative Health, Longevity & Healthy Aging, Mental & Emotional Wellness, Mind/Body Connection, Natural Solutions, Preventative Self-care, selfcare, sleep, stress-management, Uncategorized
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Simple Habits for a Thriving Life

In a world that often pressures us to focus on quick fixes and isolated goals—like crash diets for weight loss or an intense gym routine to “get in shape”—it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and burnt out. The truth is, genuine, long-lasting wellness isn’t achieved through extremes; it’s a journey built on a foundation of integrated, balanced habits.

Welcome to the power of a holistic approach to health and wellness.

At SuzanneHorrocka.com, we believe that you are a whole being—not just a collection of separate parts. True vitality springs from nurturing your mind, body, and spirit equally. Adopting holistic healthy habits means stepping back and viewing your health as an interconnected system. When one area thrives, it lifts the others, creating a powerful synergy for a joyful, energetic, and sustainable life.

Ready to stop chasing fleeting fads and start creating a life of balance? Let’s dive into the core pillars of true mind body wellness and the simple, impactful habits you can start building today for a truly healthy lifestyle.

🥗 Pillar 1: Nourishment—The Fuel for Your Body and Mind

What you eat is the literal building block of your physical health, but it also profoundly impacts your mood, energy levels, and cognitive function. This pillar is about more than just counting calories; it’s about intentional, nourishing choices.

The Habit of Whole Foods

Focus on incorporating more whole, unprocessed foods into your daily diet. Think vibrant vegetables, lean proteins, healthy fats, and complex carbohydrates.

  • Mindful Eating: Slow down. Chew thoroughly. Put away the screen and pay attention to the textures and flavors of your meal. This simple act transforms eating from a hurried task into a moment of self-care.
  • Hydration is Key: Your body is over 60% water. Start your day with a large glass of water, and carry a water bottle throughout the day. Optimal hydration impacts everything from energy and digestion to clear skin and mental clarity.
  • Embrace Color: Try to “eat the rainbow” every day. The different colors in fruits and vegetables represent different vitamins and antioxidants, ensuring you get a broad spectrum of nutrients.

By creating healthy eating habits, you are laying the physical groundwork for emotional and mental resilience.

💪 Pillar 2: Movement—The Joy of an Active Body

Our bodies were designed to move. Movement isn’t punishment; it’s a celebration of what your body can do and a powerful tool for mood regulation. This pillar encompasses everything from a challenging workout to a gentle stretch.

The Habit of Daily Motion

Forget the pressure of a two-hour gym session. Consistency is the secret weapon for a healthy lifestyle.

  • Walk More: It’s arguably the most underrated form of exercise. A brisk 30-minute walk can clear your head, boost your metabolism, and get you your daily dose of Vitamin D (if you’re outdoors).
  • Find Your Joy: If you hate running, don’t run! Choose an activity that genuinely brings you happiness, whether it’s dancing, gardening, hiking, or swimming. When you enjoy it, it becomes a sustainable habit, not a chore.
  • Stretch and Mobilize: Dedicate five to ten minutes each day to light stretching or foam rolling. This improves flexibility, reduces muscle tension, and supports better posture—all vital components of physical wellness as we age.

🧠 Pillar 3: Inner Peace—Tending to Your Mental and Emotional Self

This is where the holistic difference truly shines. Your mental and emotional state dictates your stress levels, your relationships, and your overall outlook on life. Prioritizing this area is non-negotiable for holistic wellness.

The Habit of Mindful Connection

Modern life is loud. Creating space for silence and reflection is the antidote to chronic stress.

  • Schedule Rest: Rest is productive. It is when your body repairs and your brain consolidates memories. Ensure you’re getting 7-9 hours of quality sleep. This simple habit is the single most powerful health hack available.
  • Practice Meditation or Deep Breathing: Even five minutes a day can rewire your brain for calmness. Deep breathing (diaphragmatic breathing) immediately activates your parasympathetic nervous system, telling your body it’s safe and reducing cortisol.
  • Journal for Clarity: Unload the mental clutter onto a page. Journaling for just a few minutes can help you process emotions, identify stressors, and track patterns that are impacting your emotional health.

By focusing on mind body wellness, you stop reacting to stress and start responding to life with thoughtful intention.

🌟 Pillar 4: Purpose and Connection—Fueling Your Spirit

A sense of purpose and strong social connections are often overlooked in traditional health plans, yet they are crucial for a fulfilling and resilient life. This pillar is about feeling connected to something bigger than yourself.

The Habit of Growth and Contribution

A vibrant spirit comes from engaging with the world and continuing to grow.

  • Connect Authentically: Nurture your relationships with friends and family. Social connection is a powerful health determinant, lowering the risk of anxiety and depression. Schedule that phone call or coffee date.
  • Learn Something New: Engage your intellectual wellness by reading a new book, learning a language, or picking up a hobby. Challenging your brain keeps it agile and engaged.
  • Practice Gratitude: Every evening, write down three things you are genuinely grateful for. This simple spiritual habit shifts your focus from what is lacking to the abundance already present in your life.

🔑 Your Next Step on the Path to Holistic Health

The secret to building healthy habits for life isn’t doing everything all at once. It’s about taking one small, manageable step and making it non-negotiable.

Don’t overhaul your entire life today. Instead, choose one holistic healthy habit from the list above—perhaps drinking a glass of water before your coffee, or taking a five-minute walk after lunch—and commit to it for seven days. Once that habit feels effortless, layer on the next one.

The journey to true holistic health is a gentle, steady climb, not a sprint. Be patient with yourself, celebrate the small victories, and remember that every choice you make is an investment in your whole, wonderful self.

Which of these holistic healthy habits are you going to commit to this week? Share your pledge in the comments!

Why I Stopped Drinking Soda

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Drink More Water, Growth & Expansion, healthy habits, Healthy Lifestyle, Integrative Health, Mental & Emotional Wellness, mental-health, Natural Solutions, selfcare, Soft Goals, Stop Drinking Soda
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It Was About More Than Just Soda

When people talk about quitting soda, they usually start with a health scare, a New Year’s resolution, or an attempt to cut calories.

My story starts somewhere very different.

It begins on January 20, 2012, the day my husband John died suddenly and unexpectedly. Life didn’t just change that day — it collapsed.

But this isn’t a story about grief making me quit soda.

It’s a story about grief forcing me to rebuild my life in a way a traditional approach to loss simply couldn’t support. And that rebuilding eventually led me to make choices — including giving up soda — that were rooted in clarity, education, and self-respect instead of survival mode.*

The usual Way of Grieving Didn’t Work for Me

After my husband died, I quickly learned that in our modern culture, grief has an expiration date.
You’re supposed to “return to normal,” even when normal no longer exists.

People tell you to stay busy.
Get back to work. (Three day bereavement leave? Seriously???)
Be strong.
Move on.
Take a pill.

None of that helped me.

I needed something that acknowledged the truth: grief isn’t a moment. It’s a changed life. And if I was going to survive in it, I needed real tools — emotional, physical, spiritual, and practical.

I knew I couldn’t keep going the way I was going.
I needed to learn how to care for myself again.

Enrolling in the institute of integrative nutrition (IIN) Was an Act of Self-Rescue

In 2017, five years after losing John, I enrolled in IIN, an online health coaching program.

I enrolled to become a health coach.
And because I needed help — real help — and I wasn’t finding it in the usual places.

I needed to understand my body.
My emotions.
My relationship with food.
My stress.
My habits.
My health.

I needed something that honored the complexity of what I had lived through.

IIN became that space for me.

And it was in that space that my relationship with soda began to shift.

What I Learned at IIN Changed How I Saw Soda Completely

Soda had been part of my daily life for years. It was comforting, familiar, predictable.

But through IIN, I learned things I had never heard before:

  • The connection between sugar and inflammation
  • How stress and grief can drive cravings
  • The idea that certain foods or drinks are “primary nutrition” for the nervous system — not because they nourish us, but because they numb us
  • How blood sugar spikes affect mood, energy, and overwhelm
  • The concept of crowding out — adding nourishing habits until the unhealthy ones naturally fade
  • The difference between eating to cope and eating to nourish

Once I understood all of this, soda stopped feeling harmless.

It started feeling misaligned with the woman I was becoming — someone who was finally making choices for herself instead of reacting to the fallout of trauma.

How I Actually Stopped Drinking Soda

I didn’t quit overnight.

There was no dramatic “last can” moment.

What happened was quieter, steadier, and more sustainable:

  • I started drinking more water and herbal teas.
  • I paid attention to what my body felt like after eating whole foods.
  • I noticed how exhausted I became after the sugar rush wore off.
  • I learned to listen to my cravings with curiosity instead of judgment.
  • I replaced the emotional comfort I used to get from soda with real nourishment — rest, hydration, connection, movement, and gentler self-talk. (I’m still working on the gentler self-talk.)

And then one day, without ceremony, I realized:

I hadn’t had soda in weeks. Then months.
Then years. I hadn’t bought any from the grocery store. There was none in the house anywhere AND I didn’t miss it.

The knowledge I gained at IIN didn’t make me force myself to quit.
It made me want to.

What Changed After I Quit

The changes weren’t dramatic, but they were meaningful:

  • More consistent energy
  • Better mood stability
  • Clearer thinking
  • Fewer cravings
  • Less reliance on external “comforts”
  • A deeper sense of alignment with who I was becoming

Stopping soda wasn’t the point.
It was one small part of a much larger journey toward healing, presence, and self-understanding.

The Truth: Soda Was Never Just Soda

For me, quitting soda was a symbol of something bigger:

I had stopped choosing things that soothed my pain and started choosing things that supported my life.

Grief cracked me open.
IIN helped me rebuild.
And giving up soda was one of the many changes that emerged from finally learning how to take care of myself in a healthier, more holistic way.

If You’re On Your Own Healing Path

You don’t have to start big.
You don’t have to overhaul everything.
You don’t have to wait for the perfect moment.

Sometimes transformation begins with a surprising choice — even something as ordinary as soda.

And sometimes the smallest shift is the first sign that you’re ready to reclaim your life.

Are you Ready to Make Your Own Shift?

If my story resonates with you — if you’re curious about changing your habits, strengthening your health, or simply learning what your cravings are trying to tell you — I’d love to support you.

I created a simple, easy-to-follow guide called Stop Drinking Soda. It’s designed to help you:

  • understand why soda is so hard to quit
  • uncover the emotional triggers behind cravings
  • learn practical, gentle steps to reduce (or eliminate) soda
  • add in habits that naturally crowd out the need for sugar
  • start feeling better in a real, sustainable way

It’s not about perfection.
It’s about one empowered choice at a time.

You can download the guide here and begin your own journey toward healthier habits — in the same compassionate, holistic way that supported mine.

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Daily Prompt 12-3-2025

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Uncategorized

What is one thing you would change about yourself?

I would make myself younger.

I am physically getting older, more body aches, eye sight not as good as it was, my brain is slower, and I am weaker (I can hardly open a jar anymore).

I am adjusting, or maybe I should say attempting to adjust, my mentality to my physical age. I still feel young mentally but I’m constantly questioning my abilities.

So, if I could change something about myself, I would definitely make myself younger.

Winter Wellness: A Gentle Return to Yourself

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Drink More Water, Exercise/Movement, healthy habits, Healthy Lifestyle, Holistic & Integrated Approaches, Holistic & Integrated Approaches, Holistic Mental Health Practices, Integrative Health, Integrative Health, Longevity & Healthy Aging, Longevity Wellness, Mental & Emotional Wellness, Mind/Body Connection, Natural Solutions, Nervous System Regulation, Preventative Self-care, selfcare, Small Joys, Soft Goals, Stop Drinking Soda, Stop smoking, stress-management
Winter Wellness

December invites us to slow down, breathe a little deeper, and gather ourselves in the softness of winter. While the world around us moves quickly—holiday lists, travel plans, extra commitments—our bodies whisper a different message: rest, restore, and nourish from the inside out.

This is the heart of winter wellness, and December is the perfect place to begin.

Winter carries a rhythm all its own. Shorter days and colder weather naturally draw us indoors, asking us to ground, reflect, and create more intentional space. Instead of fighting that rhythm, we can lean into it—with practices that strengthen our energy, support our mood, and help us stay well during the season.

At the center of winter wellness is one simple truth: your body thrives when you treat it with steady, mindful care. December becomes a real invitation to tune in and honor what you need.

1. Slow Down Without Stopping Your Self-Care

Many people go into December with good intentions: more rest, fewer commitments, healthier routines. But once the calendar fills, self-care fades into the background.

This month offers an opportunity to shift that pattern.

You don’t need elaborate routines or long checklists. Wellness in winter often looks like small, grounding habits you practice consistently:

  • Waking up a little earlier for quiet time before the day begins
  • Drinking a full glass of water before your morning coffee
  • Five minutes of gentle stretching or deep breathing
  • Choosing meals that warm and nourish you
  • Building small pockets of stillness into your busy days

These simple acts create steadiness—something the season often lacks.

2. Hydration Matters More Than You Think in Winter

Most people associate dehydration with summer heat, but winter dryness is just as powerful. Indoor heat, cold air, and holiday drinks all pull moisture out of your system.

Even slight dehydration can contribute to:

  • Low energy
  • Dry skin
  • Irritability
  • Brain fog
  • Cravings for sugary drinks
  • Headaches

Adding more water sounds simple, yet it’s one of the most transformative winter wellness habits you can commit to.

To make hydration effortless:

  • Keep a water bottle in your most-used spaces
  • Drink a glass of water before every meal
  • Swap one sugary drink each day for herbal tea or lemon water
  • Add electrolyte minerals if dry winter air leaves you feeling depleted

And if soda is part of your daily routine, December is a beautiful time to explore healthier swaps. Small shifts now bring big benefits by the new year.

If you’re wanting support, my Stop Drinking Soda Guide is available on my website and also on my Buy Me A Coffee page. It offers simple, practical steps to help you break the cycle and feel better in your body this winter.

3. Nourishing Foods to Support Winter Energy

December invites warm foods that comfort without weighing you down. Choose meals that help stabilize your energy and support your immune system through the coldest months:

  • Soups and stews with vegetables, beans, or lean protein
  • Roasted root vegetables
  • Herbal teas like ginger, peppermint, or chamomile
  • Oats, chia pudding, or warm grains for easy breakfasts
  • Foods rich in vitamin C (oranges, berries, peppers)
  • Broths and hydrating foods like cucumbers, citrus, or apples

Winter meals don’t have to be complicated—just steady, warm, and nourishing.

4. Move Your Body in Ways That Feel Good (Not Forced)

Movement in December doesn’t need to be demanding. Shorter days and colder temperatures naturally lower our energy. Instead of pushing against your body, work with your winter rhythm.

Try gentle, grounding movement like:

  • Yoga
  • Stretching
  • Walking indoors or outdoors
  • Light strength training
  • Chair yoga or mobility work

Even ten minutes of movement can shift your mood, warm your body, and help you feel more centered during busy weeks.

5. Create a Calm Mind Through Simple Rituals

December can overwhelm the mind as much as the body. A few grounding rituals can bring calm back into your days:

  • Lighting a candle before you start work
  • Journaling for 3–5 minutes each morning
  • Turning off screens an hour before bed
  • Practicing deep breathing when you feel rushed
  • Creating a simple “evening wind-down” routine

These practices pave the way for steady emotional wellness through the season.

6. Protect Your Energy and Set Seasonal Boundaries

Winter reminds us that even nature protects its energy. Trees pull inward. Animals burrow. The planet itself slows down.

You’re allowed to do the same.

This month, practice saying no to things that drain you and yes to what nourishes you:

  • Choose rest over obligation
  • Keep your mornings or evenings sacred
  • Limit overcommitment
  • Make space for quiet moments
  • Ask for help when needed

Your wellness deepens when you stop stretching yourself thin.

7. Use December as a “Soft Start” for the New Year

Many people wait until January 1 to think about their health, but starting in December actually creates a smoother, gentler transition.

Instead of resolutions, think of December as your soft opening.

Choose one or two small habits:

  • Drink more water
  • Reduce soda intake
  • Go on a daily walk
  • Add a mindfulness practice
  • Prepare simple nourishing meals

These tiny shifts build momentum so you begin the new year already aligned with the life you want to step into.

Winter Wellness Is a Return to the Body

Winter wellness isn’t about perfection. It’s about listening, noticing, and responding with care. December gives you the space to reconnect with yourself before the new year begins.

It’s an invitation to honor your body, support your energy, and build rituals that bring steadiness during the darkest days of the season.

A Gentle Next Step

If one of your goals this season is to feel better in your body—especially by cutting back on sugary sodas—my Stop Drinking Soda Guide is ready for you. It offers tools, swaps, and support to help you make real, sustainable shifts.

You can find it at:
SuzanneHorrocks.com
and
BuyMeACoffee.com/SuzanneHorrocksWellness

This winter, choose the version of you that feels nourished, steady, hydrated, and deeply supported. Your body will thank you every single day of the season.

The Number One Reason People Want to Stop Drinking Soda—and the Best Way to Finally Do It

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Drink More Water, healthy habits, Healthy Lifestyle, Natural Solutions, selfcare, Stop Drinking Soda
Close-up of green leaves against a blurred background, showcasing a variety of leaf shapes and textures.
Close-up of vibrant green leaves, symbolizing freshness and a natural lifestyle.

When most people decide they’re ready to stop drinking soda, it’s usually not because of one dramatic moment. It’s not the sugar crash, or the bloating, or even the endless cycle of cravings. The number one reason people tell me they want to walk away from soda is far simpler and far more honest:

They’re tired of not feeling like themselves.

Soda becomes a subtle, daily tug-of-war—one you don’t really notice until your body starts whispering, “I don’t want this anymore.” For many, that whisper grows into discomfort: low energy, stubborn weight gain, irritated digestion, headaches, or just that general sense of being “off.” The moment they pause long enough to listen, something clicks.

They realize soda isn’t supporting the life they want.
They realize they’re ready for better.

And that moment—that quiet moment of clarity—is what brings so many people to this crossroads.

Why Soda Pulls You In So Deeply

Before we talk about how to stop drinking soda, it helps to understand why stopping feels so hard. Soda isn’t “just a drink.” It’s a habit layered with emotional comfort, routine, reward, and brain chemistry.

Here’s what’s going on beneath the surface:

1. Sugar and caffeine create a strong chemical loop.
Sugar spikes your blood sugar and triggers dopamine. Caffeine gives you a short-term sense of focus and alertness. Together, they create a cycle that your brain wants to repeat.

2. Your routines reinforce the habit.
You reach for soda in very specific moments—afternoons, meals, stress, boredom. Where there’s a pattern, there’s a groove your brain follows automatically.

3. Soda becomes emotional padding.
It’s familiar. It’s reliable. It’s a small lift in a busy day. And often, it becomes a stand-in for rest you haven’t taken.

Once you understand this, you stop blaming yourself for struggling. The goal isn’t to “be stronger.” The goal is to support your body and mind through a transition that’s absolutely doable when you approach it with intention.

The Best Way to Stop Drinking Soda

There isn’t a one-size-fits-all method, but there is a path that works for most people, especially those who’ve tried to quit before and found themselves circling back. The key is replacing the habit with integrity—giving your body what it truly needs rather than yanking away something it’s been depending on.

That’s the method I teach inside my Stop Drinking Soda Guide, but here’s a glimpse of how it works:

1. Start by tracking your soda moments, not just your sodas.

Instead of focusing on the number of cans or cups, pay attention to when you want it and why.

  • Do you crave soda when you’re tired?
  • Stressed?
  • Eating certain foods?
  • Wanting something “fun”?

Awareness makes the habit visible, and once it’s visible, it’s changeable.

2. Introduce swaps that actually satisfy what your body is asking for.

This is the part that makes quitting sustainable. Your soda habit usually signals something underneath:

  • If you want energy, try swapping with lightly flavored water plus a small protein snack.
  • If you want the fizz, try sparkling water or carbonated mineral water.
  • If you want sweetness, infuse water with berries or citrus.
  • If you want the ritual, use a fun cup, crushed ice, or an elevated beverage moment.

Your brain doesn’t need soda—it needs something to take soda’s place.

3. Reduce, don’t quit abruptly—unless you thrive on cold-turkey change.

Both approaches are valid, but most people succeed when they reduce gradually. The body adapts, cravings soften, and you stay in control.

A gentle reduction might look like:

  • Week 1: Replace one soda a day.
  • Week 2: Replace two.
  • Week 3: Only drink soda on certain days.
  • Week 4: Remove it completely or save for special occasions.

Consistency matters more than speed.

4. Strengthen the foundation: hydration, nourishment, rest.

Most cravings dissolve when your body is hydrated and supported. A tired, under-rested, under-hydrated body will reach for soda every time. A supported body won’t need it.

5. Celebrate your progress along the way.

Every time you choose differently—even once—you’re rewiring something powerful. You’re showing your body and your mind that transformation is happening at a pace you can sustain.

The Real Reward of Letting Soda Go

People expect to feel “healthier” when they stop drinking soda, but what they describe is deeper:

  • “I feel lighter.”
  • “My brain feels clearer.”
  • “I’m more in tune with my body.”
  • “I’m not controlled by cravings anymore.”
  • “I feel more like myself.”

The body responds quickly to this shift, and the benefits ripple through your mood, energy, sleep, and sense of well-being.

This is what happens when your choices start lining up with the version of you you’re stepping into.

If You Want Support, You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

If you’re reading this because you’re feeling that gentle tug to stop drinking soda and step toward something better, I want you to know you’re not behind and you’re not alone.

I created the Stop Drinking Soda Guide as a simple, practical resource for people who want to make this transition with clarity, ease, and confidence. It walks you through:

  • Understanding your soda habits
  • Creating personalized swaps
  • Building a step-by-step reduction plan
  • Supporting your body during the transition
  • Staying soda-free in the long term

You can find it on my BuyMeACoffee page here.

Your Next Step Starts Now

If you’re tired of feeling stuck in your soda addiction…
If you’re ready to feel more energized, clearer, and more connected to yourself…
If you want a gentle, doable plan that fits real life…

Now is a beautiful moment to begin.

Click to get your Stop Drinking Soda Guide and take the first step toward feeling more like yourself again.

You deserve a body—and a life—that feels supported from the inside out.

Diet Soda Is a Trade-Off, Not a Solution

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Drink More Water, Gut Health, healthy habits, Healthy Lifestyle, Natural Solutions, Preventative Self-care, selfcare, Stop Drinking Soda

What Your Body Has Been Trying to Tell You

An opened can of soda

When you reach for a can of diet soda, it often feels like a smarter choice—less sugar, fewer calories, and a promise that you’re doing something better for your health. And on the surface, that promise feels comforting. It feels like you’ve found a loophole in your cravings, a shortcut around your habits, or a compromise that lets you keep the flavor you love without the “bad stuff.”

But here’s the truth most of us sense deep down:
Diet soda isn’t a solution. It’s a trade-off.

And in wellness, every trade-off has a cost.

Today, let’s explore what that cost really looks like—physically, mentally, and emotionally—and why breaking free from the diet-soda cycle can be one of the most empowering choices you make for your long-term well-being.

The Illusion of a Healthier Choice

Diet soda was created to mimic the taste and satisfaction of regular soda without the calories. It’s marketed as lighter, friendlier, and somehow “health-conscious.”

But your body knows the difference.

And so does your nervous system, your hormones, your digestive system, and your long-term energy.

Sugar substitutes don’t provide your body with nourishment. They deliver sweetness without substance, flavor without fuel. They light up the taste receptors in your brain in the same way sugar does, but the follow-through—the satisfaction, the steady energy, the natural shut-off point—never arrives.

This leaves your body in a confused state, often increasing cravings rather than decreasing them. It’s like ringing a dinner bell without serving a meal.

And when your body feels confused, it compensates in ways you may not love:
• More snacking
• More hunger
• More cravings for highly-sweet, highly-processed foods
• More “I’ll start fresh tomorrow” cycles

Sound familiar?

Why Diet Soda Creates Another Problem Instead of Solving One

Diet soda doesn’t remove the habit—it replaces it with a different version of the same pattern.

1. The Sweetness Loop

Artificial sweeteners are designed to be intensely sweet—sometimes hundreds of times sweeter than sugar itself. That level of intensity can shift your taste buds over time. Real, nourishing foods—fruit, tea, water with lemon—begin to taste muted in comparison.

This keeps your palate addicted to strong, artificial sweetness instead of gently recalibrating to natural flavor.

2. The Hormone Disruption

Research continues to explore how artificial sweeteners impact insulin response and metabolism, and the growing evidence suggests a complicated picture. Even without calories, your body can still respond as if sugar has entered the system.

This can contribute to blood sugar swings, energy dips, and the kind of persistent low-grade hunger that keeps you reaching for processed snacks or more diet soda.

3. The Hydration Problem

Diet soda doesn’t hydrate you. It contains compounds that can pull water from your system, leaving you feeling sluggish, tense, or more fatigued than expected. And when you’re tired, cravings intensify.

4. The “I Deserve This” Cycle

When you drink something you’ve labeled as “better,” it’s easy to feel like you’ve earned a treat later. This can trigger the exact over-consumption you were trying to avoid.

In other words:
Diet soda can keep you stuck in the very cycle you hoped it would fix.

A Moment of Self-Honesty

You might love diet soda. You might rely on it for a pick-me-up, a flavor craving, or a moment of comfort. There is no shame in that.

But there is power in pausing long enough to say:

“Is this really serving me?”

If the answer is no—or even a hesitant maybe—then you’re already standing at the doorway of transformation.

What Real Solutions Look Like

A real solution nourishes you.
It supports your hormones, your hydration, your nervous system, and your ability to reset old habits with clarity instead of confusion.

A real solution helps you feel:

• more energized
• less bloated
• more in control of your cravings
• more grounded in your choices
• more connected to your long-term wellness vision

This is why breaking the soda cycle—diet or regular—is one of the most liberating changes you can make.

And you don’t have to do it alone.

A Clear Path Forward: The Stop Drinking Soda Guide

If you’re ready to step out of the trade-off and into something better, I created the Stop Drinking Soda Guide as a gentle, practical resource to support your shift.

Inside this guide, you’ll find:

• Simple steps to break the soda habit
• A deeper understanding of your triggers
• Easy hydration swaps that actually taste good
• Supportive mindset shifts to help you stay consistent
• Bonus downloads: 7 Soda Swaps and The Price of Soda (limited time)

This guide was designed to help you stop negotiating with yourself, stop feeling stuck, and start feeling aligned with your true wellness intentions.

You are capable of more freedom than diet soda has ever offered you.

When You Let Go of the Trade-Off, You Make Room for Something Better

Your body doesn’t need tricks.
It doesn’t need fake sweetness.
It doesn’t need substitutes that confuse your system and keep you tethered to the very habit you want to outgrow.

Your body needs clarity.
Hydration.
Support.
Consistency.
And choices that nourish you—body and mind.

Let today be the moment you step toward that clarity.

Your Next Step (A Gentle Invitation)

If you’re ready to feel better, clearer, and more in control of your habits, your healing, and your energy, I invite you to take the next small step.

Download the Stop Drinking Soda Guide today and begin releasing the patterns that no longer serve you. Your future self will thank you for this shift.

👉 Click here to get your guide and start your transformation now.

You deserve a life that feels balanced, hydrated, and fully yours again.

Daily Prompt Nov 17th

by Suzanne Horrocks Wellness, posted in Gratitude, Healthy Lifestyle, Memoir, Small Joys, Writing

What is your favorite place to go in your city?

Excellent question!

My favorite place to go in my small town (rural north east Missouri) is the Mississippi River front. There’s a huge parking lot, a boat ramp, and an area with shade trees and picnic tables. (Also easy parking there.) There’s even two gazebos, perfect for chatting, storytelling, socializing, etc.

We enjoy stopping by there to see the moon rise over the water, and watching birds and barge traffic.

It’s easy to see the river as a support system for nature, i.e. plants and animals. Especially trees. The driftwood is amazing!

It’s also easy to see the transportation route the river creates. There’s train tracks running along, and across, it. The barge traffic also showcases the trade route.

I love imagining the original people of the area using canoes or handmade rafts to visit and trade with family, friends, and community members.

The Mississippi River front park is my favorite place to go in my small town.