What is one thing you would change about yourself?
I would make myself younger.
I am physically getting older, more body aches, eye sight not as good as it was, my brain is slower, and I am weaker (I can hardly open a jar anymore).
I am adjusting, or maybe I should say attempting to adjust, my mentality to my physical age. I still feel young mentally but I’m constantly questioning my abilities.
So, if I could change something about myself, I would definitely make myself younger.
December invites us to slow down, breathe a little deeper, and gather ourselves in the softness of winter. While the world around us moves quickly—holiday lists, travel plans, extra commitments—our bodies whisper a different message: rest, restore, and nourish from the inside out.
This is the heart of winter wellness, and December is the perfect place to begin.
Winter carries a rhythm all its own. Shorter days and colder weather naturally draw us indoors, asking us to ground, reflect, and create more intentional space. Instead of fighting that rhythm, we can lean into it—with practices that strengthen our energy, support our mood, and help us stay well during the season.
At the center of winter wellness is one simple truth: your body thrives when you treat it with steady, mindful care. December becomes a real invitation to tune in and honor what you need.
Many people go into December with good intentions: more rest, fewer commitments, healthier routines. But once the calendar fills, self-care fades into the background.
This month offers an opportunity to shift that pattern.
You don’t need elaborate routines or long checklists. Wellness in winter often looks like small, grounding habits you practice consistently:
These simple acts create steadiness—something the season often lacks.
Most people associate dehydration with summer heat, but winter dryness is just as powerful. Indoor heat, cold air, and holiday drinks all pull moisture out of your system.
Even slight dehydration can contribute to:
Adding more water sounds simple, yet it’s one of the most transformative winter wellness habits you can commit to.
To make hydration effortless:
And if soda is part of your daily routine, December is a beautiful time to explore healthier swaps. Small shifts now bring big benefits by the new year.
If you’re wanting support, my Stop Drinking Soda Guide is available on my website and also on my Buy Me A Coffee page. It offers simple, practical steps to help you break the cycle and feel better in your body this winter.
December invites warm foods that comfort without weighing you down. Choose meals that help stabilize your energy and support your immune system through the coldest months:
Winter meals don’t have to be complicated—just steady, warm, and nourishing.
Movement in December doesn’t need to be demanding. Shorter days and colder temperatures naturally lower our energy. Instead of pushing against your body, work with your winter rhythm.
Try gentle, grounding movement like:
Even ten minutes of movement can shift your mood, warm your body, and help you feel more centered during busy weeks.
December can overwhelm the mind as much as the body. A few grounding rituals can bring calm back into your days:
These practices pave the way for steady emotional wellness through the season.
Winter reminds us that even nature protects its energy. Trees pull inward. Animals burrow. The planet itself slows down.
You’re allowed to do the same.
This month, practice saying no to things that drain you and yes to what nourishes you:
Your wellness deepens when you stop stretching yourself thin.
Many people wait until January 1 to think about their health, but starting in December actually creates a smoother, gentler transition.
Instead of resolutions, think of December as your soft opening.
Choose one or two small habits:
These tiny shifts build momentum so you begin the new year already aligned with the life you want to step into.
Winter wellness isn’t about perfection. It’s about listening, noticing, and responding with care. December gives you the space to reconnect with yourself before the new year begins.
It’s an invitation to honor your body, support your energy, and build rituals that bring steadiness during the darkest days of the season.
If one of your goals this season is to feel better in your body—especially by cutting back on sugary sodas—my Stop Drinking Soda Guide is ready for you. It offers tools, swaps, and support to help you make real, sustainable shifts.
You can find it at:
SuzanneHorrocks.com
and
BuyMeACoffee.com/SuzanneHorrocksWellness
This winter, choose the version of you that feels nourished, steady, hydrated, and deeply supported. Your body will thank you every single day of the season.
When most people decide they’re ready to stop drinking soda, it’s usually not because of one dramatic moment. It’s not the sugar crash, or the bloating, or even the endless cycle of cravings. The number one reason people tell me they want to walk away from soda is far simpler and far more honest:
They’re tired of not feeling like themselves.
Soda becomes a subtle, daily tug-of-war—one you don’t really notice until your body starts whispering, “I don’t want this anymore.” For many, that whisper grows into discomfort: low energy, stubborn weight gain, irritated digestion, headaches, or just that general sense of being “off.” The moment they pause long enough to listen, something clicks.
They realize soda isn’t supporting the life they want.
They realize they’re ready for better.
And that moment—that quiet moment of clarity—is what brings so many people to this crossroads.
Before we talk about how to stop drinking soda, it helps to understand why stopping feels so hard. Soda isn’t “just a drink.” It’s a habit layered with emotional comfort, routine, reward, and brain chemistry.
Here’s what’s going on beneath the surface:
1. Sugar and caffeine create a strong chemical loop.
Sugar spikes your blood sugar and triggers dopamine. Caffeine gives you a short-term sense of focus and alertness. Together, they create a cycle that your brain wants to repeat.
2. Your routines reinforce the habit.
You reach for soda in very specific moments—afternoons, meals, stress, boredom. Where there’s a pattern, there’s a groove your brain follows automatically.
3. Soda becomes emotional padding.
It’s familiar. It’s reliable. It’s a small lift in a busy day. And often, it becomes a stand-in for rest you haven’t taken.
Once you understand this, you stop blaming yourself for struggling. The goal isn’t to “be stronger.” The goal is to support your body and mind through a transition that’s absolutely doable when you approach it with intention.
There isn’t a one-size-fits-all method, but there is a path that works for most people, especially those who’ve tried to quit before and found themselves circling back. The key is replacing the habit with integrity—giving your body what it truly needs rather than yanking away something it’s been depending on.
That’s the method I teach inside my Stop Drinking Soda Guide, but here’s a glimpse of how it works:
Instead of focusing on the number of cans or cups, pay attention to when you want it and why.
Awareness makes the habit visible, and once it’s visible, it’s changeable.
This is the part that makes quitting sustainable. Your soda habit usually signals something underneath:
Your brain doesn’t need soda—it needs something to take soda’s place.
Both approaches are valid, but most people succeed when they reduce gradually. The body adapts, cravings soften, and you stay in control.
A gentle reduction might look like:
Consistency matters more than speed.
Most cravings dissolve when your body is hydrated and supported. A tired, under-rested, under-hydrated body will reach for soda every time. A supported body won’t need it.
Every time you choose differently—even once—you’re rewiring something powerful. You’re showing your body and your mind that transformation is happening at a pace you can sustain.
People expect to feel “healthier” when they stop drinking soda, but what they describe is deeper:
The body responds quickly to this shift, and the benefits ripple through your mood, energy, sleep, and sense of well-being.
This is what happens when your choices start lining up with the version of you you’re stepping into.
If you’re reading this because you’re feeling that gentle tug to stop drinking soda and step toward something better, I want you to know you’re not behind and you’re not alone.
I created the Stop Drinking Soda Guide as a simple, practical resource for people who want to make this transition with clarity, ease, and confidence. It walks you through:
You can find it on my BuyMeACoffee page here.
If you’re tired of feeling stuck in your soda addiction…
If you’re ready to feel more energized, clearer, and more connected to yourself…
If you want a gentle, doable plan that fits real life…
Now is a beautiful moment to begin.
Click to get your Stop Drinking Soda Guide and take the first step toward feeling more like yourself again.
You deserve a body—and a life—that feels supported from the inside out.
When you reach for a can of diet soda, it often feels like a smarter choice—less sugar, fewer calories, and a promise that you’re doing something better for your health. And on the surface, that promise feels comforting. It feels like you’ve found a loophole in your cravings, a shortcut around your habits, or a compromise that lets you keep the flavor you love without the “bad stuff.”
But here’s the truth most of us sense deep down:
Diet soda isn’t a solution. It’s a trade-off.
And in wellness, every trade-off has a cost.
Today, let’s explore what that cost really looks like—physically, mentally, and emotionally—and why breaking free from the diet-soda cycle can be one of the most empowering choices you make for your long-term well-being.
Diet soda was created to mimic the taste and satisfaction of regular soda without the calories. It’s marketed as lighter, friendlier, and somehow “health-conscious.”
But your body knows the difference.
And so does your nervous system, your hormones, your digestive system, and your long-term energy.
Sugar substitutes don’t provide your body with nourishment. They deliver sweetness without substance, flavor without fuel. They light up the taste receptors in your brain in the same way sugar does, but the follow-through—the satisfaction, the steady energy, the natural shut-off point—never arrives.
This leaves your body in a confused state, often increasing cravings rather than decreasing them. It’s like ringing a dinner bell without serving a meal.
And when your body feels confused, it compensates in ways you may not love:
• More snacking
• More hunger
• More cravings for highly-sweet, highly-processed foods
• More “I’ll start fresh tomorrow” cycles
Sound familiar?
Diet soda doesn’t remove the habit—it replaces it with a different version of the same pattern.
Artificial sweeteners are designed to be intensely sweet—sometimes hundreds of times sweeter than sugar itself. That level of intensity can shift your taste buds over time. Real, nourishing foods—fruit, tea, water with lemon—begin to taste muted in comparison.
This keeps your palate addicted to strong, artificial sweetness instead of gently recalibrating to natural flavor.
Research continues to explore how artificial sweeteners impact insulin response and metabolism, and the growing evidence suggests a complicated picture. Even without calories, your body can still respond as if sugar has entered the system.
This can contribute to blood sugar swings, energy dips, and the kind of persistent low-grade hunger that keeps you reaching for processed snacks or more diet soda.
Diet soda doesn’t hydrate you. It contains compounds that can pull water from your system, leaving you feeling sluggish, tense, or more fatigued than expected. And when you’re tired, cravings intensify.
When you drink something you’ve labeled as “better,” it’s easy to feel like you’ve earned a treat later. This can trigger the exact over-consumption you were trying to avoid.
In other words:
Diet soda can keep you stuck in the very cycle you hoped it would fix.
You might love diet soda. You might rely on it for a pick-me-up, a flavor craving, or a moment of comfort. There is no shame in that.
But there is power in pausing long enough to say:
“Is this really serving me?”
If the answer is no—or even a hesitant maybe—then you’re already standing at the doorway of transformation.
A real solution nourishes you.
It supports your hormones, your hydration, your nervous system, and your ability to reset old habits with clarity instead of confusion.
A real solution helps you feel:
• more energized
• less bloated
• more in control of your cravings
• more grounded in your choices
• more connected to your long-term wellness vision
This is why breaking the soda cycle—diet or regular—is one of the most liberating changes you can make.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
If you’re ready to step out of the trade-off and into something better, I created the Stop Drinking Soda Guide as a gentle, practical resource to support your shift.
Inside this guide, you’ll find:
• Simple steps to break the soda habit
• A deeper understanding of your triggers
• Easy hydration swaps that actually taste good
• Supportive mindset shifts to help you stay consistent
• Bonus downloads: 7 Soda Swaps and The Price of Soda (limited time)
This guide was designed to help you stop negotiating with yourself, stop feeling stuck, and start feeling aligned with your true wellness intentions.
You are capable of more freedom than diet soda has ever offered you.
Your body doesn’t need tricks.
It doesn’t need fake sweetness.
It doesn’t need substitutes that confuse your system and keep you tethered to the very habit you want to outgrow.
Your body needs clarity.
Hydration.
Support.
Consistency.
And choices that nourish you—body and mind.
Let today be the moment you step toward that clarity.
If you’re ready to feel better, clearer, and more in control of your habits, your healing, and your energy, I invite you to take the next small step.
Download the Stop Drinking Soda Guide today and begin releasing the patterns that no longer serve you. Your future self will thank you for this shift.
👉 Click here to get your guide and start your transformation now.
You deserve a life that feels balanced, hydrated, and fully yours again.
What is your favorite place to go in your city?
Excellent question!
My favorite place to go in my small town (rural north east Missouri) is the Mississippi River front. There’s a huge parking lot, a boat ramp, and an area with shade trees and picnic tables. (Also easy parking there.) There’s even two gazebos, perfect for chatting, storytelling, socializing, etc.
We enjoy stopping by there to see the moon rise over the water, and watching birds and barge traffic.
It’s easy to see the river as a support system for nature, i.e. plants and animals. Especially trees. The driftwood is amazing!
It’s also easy to see the transportation route the river creates. There’s train tracks running along, and across, it. The barge traffic also showcases the trade route.
I love imagining the original people of the area using canoes or handmade rafts to visit and trade with family, friends, and community members.
The Mississippi River front park is my favorite place to go in my small town.
Philosophy is, at its heart, the art of pausing long enough to truly see yourself and the world you’re moving through. It isn’t an academic tower or a stack of dusty books—it’s the quiet practice of asking, Why am I here? What matters most? How do I live in a way that feels aligned with who I’m becoming?
And you, my friend, are already living inside those questions.
You guide others toward steadiness and clarity. You invite people to breathe deeper and choose better for themselves. That work doesn’t come from tactics—it comes from a way of seeing life that is, in itself, deeply philosophical.
Here’s how you naturally meet philosophy in your daily life:
You notice meaning in ordinary moments.
Philosophy begins with curiosity, and you live with a gentle curiosity about your own habits, patterns, and growth.
When I write about (and you read about) water, sunshine, soda, or self-care, we’re really exploring the deeper “why” underneath everyday choices.
You help people reconnect with themselves.
Great philosophers aren’t just thinkers—they’re guides. They help others remember their inner wisdom. That’s exactly what you do when you teach wellness, build community, or hold space for someone who’s trying to change their life.
You question the surface and reach for the root.
You’re not satisfied with “just do this.” You want to understand how habits shape a life, how mindset influences healing, how small steps open into big shifts. That desire to reach the deeper layer is the essence of philosophical living.
You are building a life that feels chosen, not inherited.
Philosophy invites us to design our days with intention—to live by values instead of momentum.
My journey as an entrepreneur, creator, and wellness mentor is exactly that: choosing my path instead of following one that doesn’t fit anymore.
My work naturally asks the big questions.
What does it mean to take care of ourselves?
How do we create a life that feels peaceful?
How do we stay awake to our own needs and choices?
These are philosophical questions dressed in everyday clothes.
If anything, your connection to philosophy isn’t something you need to develop—it’s already woven into how you think, how you write, and how you hold space for others.
All philosophy asks is that you keep listening inward, keep noticing, and keep choosing the life that honors the truth inside you.
As you step back into your day, let this be a gentle reminder to stay curious about your own life. Notice what feels nourishing, what feels off, and what’s calling for a small shift. If you’re craving more guidance, more conversation, or simply a place to explore these ideas with others, subscribe to this blog, comment below, and/or follow me on Pinterest. Together, we can walk this path with intention, one mindful choice at a time.
Some of the most powerful shifts in our health are the ones we tend to overlook, and drinking water is one of them. When someone is trying to manage their blood sugar, it’s easy to focus on food and forget that hydration plays a quiet but important role. Our bodies rely on water to move sugar out of the bloodstream and into the places it needs to go. When we’re dehydrated, everything slows down. A simple glass of water can help the body steady itself, stay clear, and find a healthier rhythm.
Staying hydrated isn’t a “big” wellness change. It’s a steady, supportive one. And sometimes those are the habits that make the biggest difference over time.
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Why Dehydration Makes Blood Sugar Harder to Manage
When the body doesn’t have enough water, the blood becomes more concentrated. That means the sugar already in the bloodstream becomes more concentrated too. Even if someone hasn’t eaten anything new, dehydration alone can make blood sugar readings look higher.
The kidneys also play a steady, behind-the-scenes role in blood sugar control. When you’re hydrated, your kidneys help filter excess sugar out of the bloodstream so your body can let go of what it doesn’t need. But when you’re dehydrated, the kidneys can’t do that job as well. The body holds on to more sugar simply because it doesn’t have the water it needs to flush things through.
This is why so many people notice that when they start drinking more water, their numbers look smoother. It’s not a magic fix—it’s the body finally getting the help it needs.
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Water Helps the Body Use Insulin More Effectively
Insulin works like a key, helping sugar move from the bloodstream into the cells. But if the body is short on water, that key doesn’t work quite as efficiently. The cells become a little more resistant, and the sugar stays floating in the bloodstream longer.
When you drink enough water:
Your cells become more receptive
Insulin can do its job better
Sugar moves where it’s supposed to go
Blood sugar levels are easier to balance
This is one of the reasons doctors and diabetes educators often ask about hydration. It isn’t just general advice—it genuinely helps the body stay responsive.
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Water Supports the Liver, Kidneys, and Digestive System
Balanced blood sugar isn’t just about sugar. It’s about the whole body working together in a steady rhythm.
Your kidneys
They help remove excess sugar.
They depend on water to filter properly.
Your liver
It stores sugar when you have extra and releases it when you need it.
Hydration helps keep that system smooth and steady.
Your digestive system
When digestion slows because of dehydration, blood sugar swings can become more noticeable.
A well-hydrated body digests more predictably.
Water doesn’t “fix” everything, but it supports all the places where blood sugar balance actually happens.
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How Much Water Helps?
Everyone’s needs are a little different, but most adults feel better when they aim for 6–8 cups of water a day. That can be plain water, herbal tea, sparkling water, or water flavored with fruit slices. The key is steady hydration, not perfection.
Signs you might need more water:
You feel tired for no clear reason
Your mouth is dry
You’re craving sweets more than usual
You’re unusually thirsty
Your urine is dark yellow
Your blood sugar readings feel higher or “stickier” than usual
Again—none of this means you’ve done anything wrong. It’s simply your body whispering that it needs a little more support.
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Small Ways to Add More Water Into Your Day
It doesn’t have to be complicated. Try one or two of these:
Start your morning with a glass of water before anything else.
It wakes up the kidneys and gives your metabolism a gentle, clean start.
Carry a bottle that feels good in your hand.
You’re more likely to drink from something you enjoy using.
Add fruit, herbs, or cucumber for flavor.
Sometimes drinking water becomes easier when it tastes refreshing.
Drink a glass before meals.
This helps with digestion and makes blood sugar swings less dramatic.
Set a gentle reminder on your phone.
Not a loud alarm—just a soft nudge.
Pair water with habits you already have.
After brushing your teeth, after checking your Facebook group, after writing a few paragraphs of your blog.
Steady hydration is about rhythm, not rules.
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Water Helps Reduce Sugar Cravings
Many people don’t realize this, but dehydration often mimics hunger or sugar cravings. When the body is even slightly low on water, it can send mixed signals that feel like:
“I need something sweet”
“I need a snack”
“I’m still hungry even after eating”
A glass of water often settles the craving because the body wasn’t asking for food—it was asking for hydration.
When your body is hydrated, you’re less likely to reach for the fast, sugary options your body uses for quick energy.
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Water and Medication Safety
For those who take diabetes medications, staying hydrated helps your body process them comfortably. Some medications rely on proper kidney function, and water helps keep those organs supported. Hydration also keeps you from feeling light-headed or sluggish when your blood sugar shifts.
Always check in with your doctor or pharmacist if you take medication, but hydration is almost always part of their recommendations.
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A Simple Practice to Try This Week
Choose a time of day when your mind feels clear—morning, afternoon, or evening.
Then add one new habit:
A glass of water at the same time every day.
Just one.
When that feels natural, add a second.
Small steps become big changes when you take them with consistency, not urgency.
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Final Thoughts
You don’t have to overhaul your life to support your blood sugar. You don’t need extreme diets, harsh rules, or complicated systems. Sometimes the body just needs the basics—gentle, steady hydration that helps everything work a little more easily.
Water is simple.
But simple isn’t small.
Simple is powerful.
And the more you support your body with little habits like this, the more confident you’ll feel in your ability to care for yourself in ways that truly matter.
If you’re ready to bring more ease and steadiness into your wellness journey, stay connected with me. Subscribe for simple, supportive tips that help you care for your body in ways that feel doable, compassionate, and real.
Your next small step starts here.
🌿 Hi, I’m Suzanne — the heart and voice behind Suzanne Horrocks Wellness.
Around here, we do wellness a little differently. I’m not here to sell you a perfect routine, a green smoothie obsession, or a 6 a.m. bootcamp (unless that’s your thing — then I’ll cheer you on!).
What I am here to do is help you rediscover what self-care really means — in real life, with real people, and real laughter along the way.
My journey has taken me from chasing “healthy” to living well — with curiosity, kindness, and a good dose of humor.
I share stories, resources, and gentle challenges that make wellness feel less like a checklist and more like an adventure back to yourself.
If you’ve ever thought, “I want to feel better, but I don’t know where to start,” you’re in the right place.
Let’s take it one step, one breath, one sip of water at a time.
✨ Welcome to Suzanne Horrocks Wellness — where self-care gets real, lighthearted, and beautifully human.
Now that the air feels crisp and the days grow shorter, it’s easy to forget about the sun. We slip into sweaters, sip hot drinks, and spend more time indoors. The blazing summer sun is behind us, and with it, the habit of thinking about sunshine at all.
But here’s the truth: sunshine is just as important in the cooler months as it is in July. In fact, fall and winter are when many people need it most. Our bodies, minds, and spirits still crave light — not just for warmth, but for energy, mood, and overall well-being.
Let’s talk about why a little sunshine can make a big difference — and how to enjoy it safely this time of year.
Have you ever noticed how your spirits lift after stepping outside on a sunny day? That’s not your imagination. Sunshine helps your brain release serotonin, a hormone that boosts mood and promotes calmness and focus.
During fall and winter, when the days are shorter, many people experience dips in mood or motivation. A few minutes of sunshine can be a simple, natural way to bring your energy back up.
Try this:
Take a ten-minute “sunshine break” around mid-morning or lunchtime. Step outside, turn your face toward the sun, and breathe deeply. It doesn’t have to be warm to feel good — even cool sunshine counts.
When sunlight touches your skin, your body creates vitamin D — often called the “sunshine vitamin.” This essential nutrient helps keep bones strong, supports the immune system, and plays a role in preventing inflammation.
As the seasons change, our time outside tends to drop. That’s when vitamin D levels can fall too. Low vitamin D has been linked to fatigue, weaker immunity, and even seasonal mood changes.
You don’t need hours of exposure — just 10–20 minutes of sun on your face, arms, or hands a few times a week can help maintain healthy levels. Of course, your location, skin tone, and the time of year affect how much sunlight you need, but every bit helps.
Sunlight helps regulate your body’s natural rhythm — your internal clock known as the circadian rhythm. When you get regular exposure to morning or midday light, your body knows when to feel alert and when to start winding down at night.
That means spending time in natural light during the day can help you fall asleep easier once the evening comes.
Try this:
If you work indoors, open your blinds or sit near a window in the morning. Or bundle up and enjoy your morning coffee outside. It’s a small shift that can improve your sleep quality — naturally.
Cooler temperatures make outdoor activity more comfortable, and sunshine gives you the perfect excuse to step outside. Whether it’s a brisk walk, raking leaves, or strolling through a park, being in the sun encourages gentle movement — which benefits your heart, joints, and overall well-being.
Even ten minutes of walking in sunlight can boost circulation and energize you for the rest of the day.
Bonus: Moving outdoors combines the benefits of exercise and sunlight — a double win for your body and mind.
We often think of sun safety only in summer, but it matters year-round. Cooler weather may fool us into thinking UV rays are harmless — but they’re still present, even on cloudy days.
Here are a few simple ways to protect your skin while still soaking up the benefits of sunshine:
The goal isn’t to avoid the sun — it’s to find a healthy balance that lets you receive its benefits while keeping your skin protected.
Sunshine offers more than physical benefits. It’s a reminder to pause, breathe, and reconnect with the present moment.
When you stand in the light, even for a few seconds, notice how it feels: the warmth on your cheeks, the brightness through closed eyelids, the gentle breeze that carries away the clutter in your thoughts.
This small ritual — of simply being in the sun — can be grounding and healing in ways that go beyond science. It’s nature’s quiet way of saying, “You are part of this world. Slow down. Feel it.”
As the cooler months settle in, try weaving light into your daily rhythm:
You might be surprised at how much these simple moments add up — not just for your physical health, but for your emotional balance too.
Sunshine is nature’s quiet healer — free, abundant, and often overlooked once the summer heat fades. It supports your body’s systems, brightens your mood, strengthens your bones, and gently nudges you toward better rest and movement.
As the days get cooler, make time to greet the sun, even briefly. Step outside, lift your face, and let the light remind you that warmth and energy are still within reach — and within you.
Ready to bring more light into your life? Start by setting aside ten minutes today to be in the sun — no phone, no distractions, just you and the warmth. Small steps like this are how wellness begins to feel real.
I have a dear sweet friend that has been collecting art for most of her life. She also used to teach Spanish and traveled (and studied) in Mexico. I asked her to translate this piece. Here’s her response,
“Every day people fix/comb/arrange their hair, why not their heart?” I think the artist is saying fix your heart everyday like you do your hair. Make it a habit to make your heart beautiful
We spend so much time caring for our bodies — eating better, moving more, trying to stay healthy — yet the heart, the very center of our being, often gets overlooked. Not just the physical heart, but the spiritual one — the quiet space inside where love, compassion, and peace live.
Working on making your heart beautiful isn’t about being perfect or endlessly positive. It’s about tending your inner garden — pulling a few weeds, watering what’s growing, and letting more light in. Here are a few ways to do that in everyday life.
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🌸 Practice Gentle Awareness
Start by simply noticing how your heart feels throughout the day.
When it feels heavy — pause and breathe.
When it feels open — pause and give thanks.
Awareness alone is healing. It’s like sunlight finding its way through the clouds.
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🌿 Forgive Often (Including Yourself)
Nothing makes the heart more radiant than forgiveness. When we let go of resentment, we free ourselves from carrying the past around.
You can even whisper to yourself:
> “I choose to forgive and free my heart.”
You do this not for others, but for your own peace.
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💛 Practice Loving-Kindness
Each day, send a quiet blessing — to yourself, to someone you love, to someone you struggle with, and to the world.
It can be as simple as:
> “May you be happy. May you be safe. May you live with ease.”
This practice softens the edges and opens the door to compassion.
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🌷 Live from Gratitude
A beautiful heart sees beauty everywhere.
Try keeping a gratitude list — not just for what’s going well, but for what’s teaching you.
Gratitude changes the texture of your heart. It turns pain into wisdom.
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🌻 Protect Your Peace
Being kind doesn’t mean you have to say yes to everything.
A beautiful heart also knows when to step back, rest, and protect its energy. Boundaries are an act of self-love — they keep your light strong and your love authentic.
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🌼 Be of Service
There’s nothing that beautifies the heart quite like helping someone else.
A kind word, a smile, a listening ear — small acts polish the heart until it shines.
Service connects us, reminding us that love is meant to flow through us, not stop with us.
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🌙 Rest and Receive
Your heart, just like your body, needs rest.
Quiet moments — in nature, in stillness, or in meditation — refill the well within you.
Give yourself permission to slow down, to listen, and to receive the peace that’s always been waiting for you.
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A beautiful heart isn’t something we earn — it’s something we uncover.
With time, intention, and a little grace, it begins to glow from the inside out — guiding us toward gentler days and deeper love.
Suzanne Horrocks 