
Summer has a way of speeding up life. The days are longer, and calendars fill with cookouts, travel plans, and extra errands. While there’s beauty in the brightness of summer, it can also leave you feeling drained—especially if you’re not pausing to care for yourself.
The good news? You don’t need an expensive retreat to feel better. Sometimes, just a few small moments can help you slow down, cool off, and feel more like yourself again.
Here are five simple, budget-friendly ways to refill your cup this summer—without overthinking it.
1. Take a Cool Bath or Shower
When the heat becomes too much, a cool (tepid is best per friend Jenny Graves, author of Naturally-Supporting-Cancer-Treatment-Evidence-based) bath or shower can work wonders. It’s more than just about lowering your body temperature—it’s about giving yourself a quiet pause. Light a candle, play soft music, or just enjoy the sound of the water.
Try adding a few slices of cucumber or mint leaves to bath water for a refreshing twist. If you’re showering, hang a bundle of eucalyptus or lavender from your shower head. It’s a little act of care that can turn a basic rinse into a calming reset.
Why it helps: Water has a naturally soothing effect. It lowers stress levels and helps you feel clean, refreshed, and reconnected to your body.
2. Start Your Day with a Gentle Morning Walk
Summer mornings are often the coolest and quietest part of the day. Before the noise of the day takes over, lace up your shoes and take a short walk—around your block, through your garden, or at a nearby park.
Keep it simple: no phone calls, no rushing. Just notice the birds, the breeze, and the way the light filters through the trees. Even 10–15 minutes can lift your mood and give you a small victory to carry into your day.
Why it helps: Morning light can help regulate your sleep cycle, and movement boosts your energy. A walk also gives your mind room to breathe.
3. Create a Simple Herbal Iced Tea Ritual
Instead of reaching for another coffee or sugary soda, treat yourself to a tall glass of iced herbal tea. You can make a batch ahead of time and keep it in your fridge. Mint, chamomile, hibiscus, and lemon balm are all wonderful choices for cooling and calming.
Take it outside to sip under a shady tree or enjoy it with your feet up indoors. Add a slice of lemon or a sprig of fresh herbs from your garden for a little touch of beauty.
Why it helps: Staying hydrated is crucial during the summer, and herbal teas offer gentle benefits for digestion, relaxation, and hydration—all without caffeine.
4. Create a Quiet Corner Just for You
Designate a small space in your home (or even outside) that’s just for you. It doesn’t have to be fancy—a cozy chair, a cushion, a basket with your journal, a book, or a favorite photo.
Return to this space when you need to breathe, reflect, or just sit in peace. If it’s too hot indoors, set up a shaded spot on your porch or in your backyard. Even five minutes in your “quiet corner” can help shift your energy.
Why it helps: Having a physical space that belongs to you sends a message: “I matter.” It invites you to pause and honor your needs in the middle of a busy day.
5. Unplug for One Hour Each Day
Between group texts, social media, and constant news updates, your mind rarely gets a break. Choose one hour each day—maybe during your lunch, in the early evening, or before bed—to set your phone aside.
Use that time to rest, read, journal, cook, stretch, or simply be still. You might be surprised how quickly the noise settles when you allow space for quiet.
Why it helps: Constant input can be exhausting. Even short breaks from screens can improve focus, reduce stress, and give you more clarity and calm.
A Gentle Reminder
Self-care doesn’t always look like spa days or long vacations. Sometimes, it’s a glass of iced tea in the shade, a walk before the world wakes up, or five minutes in a chair where no one’s asking anything of you.
If your summer has felt a little too full, try one of these ideas this week. You don’t have to do all five. Just start somewhere.
The sun is shining, but you don’t have to burn out. You deserve moments of calm, comfort, and care—even in the middle of a busy season.
Need a little help getting started?
Download my free Self-Care Checklist—a simple printable you can hang on the fridge or keep in your journal as a gentle reminder to put yourself back on the list.


